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Saturday, December 31, 2011

Tingey Family Pictures

All of my brothers happened to be here, in Utah, for Christmas. Our friend Melissa took some pictures of all of us together.

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Family Pictures

Here they are!! We had these done a few weeks ago at the Brigham City Train Station....we didn't have as much time as we had planned to do them in but I think they still turned out so cute!! It was very cold and so we went right home to the Hot Chocolate Bar. Thanks Clint for being so flexible and fast!! We love them!!

Monday, November 14, 2011

Veteran's Day

This last Friday, Laura had a program at school for Veterans Day. She had invited Paul a while ago to come to it. She has been really excited for the program and excited to have her uncle come who has served multiple tours of duty in Iraq and Afghanistan. She also had her Grandpa come who worked on the planes for the Air Force. She was one excited girl. Paul was a part of the Army, 1st Calvary (One of the most deployed units in our country). He doesn't really talk about his experiences there a whole lot. He doesn't like a big deal to be made out of his service. He just is not big on any recognition. When he would be home on leave, I couldn't throw him a BBQ/Party, so I would have my own BBQ which all his friends were invited to and other family friends who wanted to see him. I just couldn't say it was for him.

He had to drive down from Logan and we were running a little late...I'm hollering at him to hurry up as we are heading into the school. His response??? "Jill. Incase you didn't know, it's Veterans Day. I've been to war. It's my holiday. This Veteran takes his time." HA!! We got to the program and stood in the back. There came a part where he was supposed to stand up so he could recieve some recognition. I had to kind of shove him out so that he could get a card. I knew he didn't really want the recognition, he was there for Laura. He has really taken to my cute new family.

I tease Paul that he never smiles. But he smiled for this. He smiled for Laura. And even though he likes to tease her, I will forever remember that moment of seeing him watch her sing and of remembering what it was like to have my brother fight in a war. I only know a handful of his experiences, and it is such a surreal feeling to know that while he was doing that, I was here. Irritated that the line at the drive thru was taking to long to get a coke while he was living out of a tank or a bombed out building.

He and I hung out for the rest of the day. During our drive, he made the comment that it is hard to be thanked for what he has done. There is nothing glorious about what he has seen and done. People say all the time that freedom isn't free. But really, it isn't and I wonder how many of us truly understand that?? Paul has experienced that first hand. So many of us truly will never grasp what it means to have freedom nor what the men and women who have fought for our freedom have gone through and done for us.

Well, Sgt. Paul Tingey, I know there is nothing glorious in it. But I am grateful that I have a brother who is a man (anyone ever wonder what a real man is like, check out my brothers). Who is not afraid to fight for the things we have and who recognizes it isn't glorious. You have been such an amazing brother and from the middle of a war, you have called me multiple times when you knew I was going through the hardest time of my life. You have moved mountains to make sure I am ok. Thank you for what you do for me!! I love you!!!


SURPRISE!!!

Lilly and Laura got bedroom makeovers. Brandon and I had been talking about it for quite sometime now and we finally were able to do it. We spent almost an entire day looking for what would be perfect and then one night we put it all together, we stayed up until 3:00 a.m. rocking out to music. Brandon worked so hard to make the space their own. The basement in our house is unfinished, except for one bedroom. We were originally planning on putting Lilly and Laura in the downstairs bedroom together. Before we moved in, Lilly asked if she could "create" her own room out of a section of the downstairs. Of course, Brandon and I didn't care. We told her to knock herself out. She worked hard to divide off the section and create her own room. Lincoln and Jamie (Brandon's brother and his wife) bought Lilly a carpet remnant so that her room would have carpet. All four kids had shared one room at our home in Kaysville, so Lilly and Laura have been beyond happy to have some space!!! It was fun to make it more of a bedroom for Lilly and to personalize Laura's for her.

We like to joke around about our "Downtown O-Town" basement, but really, it is. The basement of our house is unfinished but fairly big. We decided to create a sort of family room down there where the kids could be. Again, this turned into a neat experience for us. We found some couches on KSL and bought them from a family in Ogden. The mom and dad only spoke Spanish and Brandon didn't really have a chance to let them know he spoke Spanish. Apparently our buying the couches couldn't have come at a better time for this family, the Dad had just come home from the hospital. It makes my heart smile to know that this cute little family was able to help ours by selling us their couches and we were able to help them. We bought a large rug from a man in the Air Force. I just get excited about that. I'd rather buy something from a serviceman then buy it at a Walmart. So we have this funky little basement. We love it.

We didn't tell the kids about it. When they came over that next Thursday, we still didn't say anything. One of the girls went downstairs and came running up (I believe it was Laura). Brandon and I followed Lilly and Laura back downstairs to watch as they figured it out. Lilly was so excited about her room. Her smile and laughter is something we will forever remember. Laura just giggled over her room as well. It was so hard to keep it a surprise but so worth it. All four kids love the little family room. Luke loves that he can eat on those couches. Ha! It's funny how some small and simple things can make all the difference in a home.

Charles Emerson Winchester IV

Right before moving, I saw some black lab puppies. Thankfully, it didn't work out to get one. I had decided to wait til Spring, when it would be easier to train a puppy. The other night, I was with the kids at Pepper Belly's to have dinner with my mom for her birthday. Laura saw an add for puppies. The price was very, very low and so I didn't think it would be worth calling. I wrote down the number at the kids urging. The next day I called, we stopped by and well....

The mom got pregnant on "accident" and so the family just wanted to find the puppies good homes. The mom is a Golden Retriever and the dad, a Black Lab. When we first picked up Charlie, I was going to name him Radar. I was pretty set on the name. However, it didn't really seem to fit. The next morning, as Brandon was kissing my on the forehead to leave, in a half sleep I asked him if he had checked on Charlie. And so it stuck. But for fun and to keep with my M*A*S*H theme, Brandon came up with Charles Emerson Winchester IV, Charlie for short.

He is a great little puppy. Little for now. He is very mellow. I used to always say that my dog Buzz was a once in a lifetime dog. That I would never have another dog like him. Charlie may be close. I love having a dog again. I have missed Buzz ever since I had to put him down. The kids love having a dog and a cat. Charlie loves Brandon and Jerry loves me. The dog loves the cat lover and the cat loves the dog lover. Go figure! Charlie and Jerry took about 24 hours to become fast friends. They play non-stop. Just the other week, I was thinking I had way too much going on....then we got a dog. Ha!

September, November....

I'm not really sure what happened to October!! What a crazy month! Moving, school, unpacking, organizing, etc. has made last month a blur!! We are really loving our new home in Plain City. I still go into culture shock at times, but mostly I miss being so close to all my friends, but am blessed to be closer to others.

The weekend before Halloween, the kids were with us. We went to our community Trunk-or-Treat. The kids threw together random costumes and we headed over to the church. That Saturday, the kids and I went up to Logan to the American West Heritage Center. We rode the train, a pony, went through a corn maze, down a huge slide and got to chuck pumpkins!! I busted out the stuff to make Halloween suckers...I'm a tad nervous to post pictures as I don't like my "domestic side" to show. However, it's proof for Pookie that I'm "where I belong", in the kitchen! I guess the month being so busy is just a sign of how good it was. We hope everyone had a good October and Halloween!! Here are a few pics from last month!

We still have the cat. Jerry. He's growing and sort of growing on me....I wish you could teach cats to not get on couches though. Grrrrr

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

A story worth reading....

Within our mission, Brandon and I get to meet some truly amazing people. There is a facilitator named Rich. He has quite a story. To see more into the Addiction Recovery Program and someone who is truly inspiring....check out his blog (www.stepintolight.net).
www.stepintolight.net

Saturday, October 22, 2011

What on earth?

Laura and I were super amused by it....
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A weekend together

Brandon had Friday off with it being fall break. We went out to breakfast and after going out to his parents that morning, we spent the rest of the day together. We went and checked out a cool kitchen store in Ogden to get some supplies I need to make suckers and then decided to go for a drive up Logan Canyon to see the leaves, and go to the Logan LDS Temple.

After going home to change and grab our stuff we were off. The leaves up the canyon were so bright. I was so busy enjoying them that I didn't take one picture! Oh-well. We randomly picked a Chinese joint for dinner and then were off to the Logan Temple. Neither of us have ever attended that temple before, so we were pretty excited. What a beautiful temple! There is something about the older temples that I just love. The architecture, craftsmanship and feel is always inspiring. I love history and buildings rich in history. Cheesy, I know.

Afterwards, we went over to see Pookie. We visited with Brad and one of his team mates. Brad is my Non-biological brother. The red-headed step child if you will. He has been friends with Paul since shortly after moving here. He has been in my life for so long, that he is a brother. Paul, Brandon and I went out for ice cream. It was fun to sit and talk and laugh and see my brother.

Today, we got up and Brandon introduced me to Smith and Edwards. It's a large camping/cowboy/army surplus/all kinds of crap store. Ye haw! They have everything. It was a lot of fun to walk around a store as big as Walmart but filled with camping, army surplus, fishing and cowboy stuff. There was a large cut out of John Wayne and I fell in love. I almost bought it. I wish more men were like John Wayne! Then off for some cokes and back home. We spent the rest of our day organizing and cleaning the garage and working in the yard. Once we were done we went and explored Brigham City, just north of us. After our drive we stopped at a pizza place for dinner.

I love our low key weekends together. With Brandon done with school and me at home, we have had a lot of free time together to just goof around, go for drives and be together. We are so blessed. That darling husband of mine keeps me laughing all day.

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

moving, unpacking and the kittens

Well, we moved. I've been able to unpack quite a bit but still have a ways to go....we still have one of the cats. GASP! Jerry has stayed with us and moved to our new house with us. For some reason, he loves me. I don't get it. I bathe him, clip his nails and won't let him on the beds. You'd think he hates me. I even shut him in the fridge door last night (on accident) and he still loves me. Go figure.

We are really liking our new house in Plain City. The kids love that we are closer. Lilly and Laura really love having their own bedrooms. I love that there is now less driving but I miss living close to friends and family. Brandon and I won't be working in the Bountiful Temple for the next couple of months. We are both sad, as we loved working there. Brandon has clinicals every Saturday out in Salt Lake for about six more weeks and where we have gone down to one car for the time being, it doesn't work for me to be able to keep volunteering there. Many have wondered if we will be able to still do our mission. The Jones's went to bat for us, our Stake President doesn't want us to stop....so we will continue on in our mission. That has been such a special experience for Brandon and I.

Enjoy a few pictures of the kittens! Jerry is the brown cat. Also, I threw in a couple others, one of Liz helping me make cookies and one of B and Luke out back playing last Thursday. Liz has been a HUGE help to me lately. Last Saturday, in addition to chores, she helped me weed, plant, do laundry and cook dinner. Go Liz!! Last weekend, Laura and I went for late night slurpees. I love those moments. Nothing huge, but just a fun moment with my Laura getting a treat. Good Stuff.

So we are all doing well, I'm loving staying home. I thought I would struggle with it. I've always worked. But I love being at home, taking care of my home and family and even the stupid cat. School is good, I am anxious to get my degree done and get into graduate school. Brandon is loving his job. I've never seen him so happy. I'm always in awe of what a hilarious man I am married to. One minute he has me cracking up, the next he is dancing with me in the living room making me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. With him being done with school and his new schedule, we have had fun having so much free time together. Lilly has started riding horses and loves it, Laura is still dancing. Luke loves all the space in the new house and Liz is as fun as ever. Whew! Sorry it's so quick....hopefully I have more time later to write more.

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

I guess pigs do fly....

Are you sitting down? Not only have I left Davis County....we got a stinking cat. Remember the kittens born in our garage? I was out voted and we kept one. On the upside, we kept the one that tried to bite Brandon. He has been named Jerry...like Tom and Jerry or Jerry Garcia. I am allergic to cats but seem to be doing ok. I am 100% a dog person. Not a cat person. Cats are nowhere near as smart as dogs and they don't listen, plus I hate the pooping in a box in my house. However, I've agreed to give it a try. It is nice to have a pet. I just wish it was a lab.
Jerry is very sweet and playful and the kids love having him. For some reason, the cat really loves me. UGH.

Thursday, September 29, 2011

Movin' on up....Litterally

So we are moving- Up North. Out of my beloved Davis County and Bountiful-Centerville-Farmington-Kaysville area. Those of you who know me well are probably sitting with dropped jaws wondering if I'm feeling ok. I feel great, so don't worry!! I've lived out of the State before and during the bulk of my 20's I lived in Salt Lake City. I love Salt Lake, especially the areas I lived in (Sugar House, Foot Hill and Down Town). I have NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS thought I would EVER move to the Ogden area. But I now find myself moving to Plain City. It is just west of North Ogden (Brandon keeps telling me North Ogden is better than Ogden).

It was by accident really. Brandon and I have always had plans to live closer to the kids, we discussed it in length while we dated. But we weren't actively looking, just every now and then. A few weeks ago, Brandon came across a house while waiting for Laura at dance. It's a small house. I call it a cottage. And it is only 7 miles from the kids. We were looking at a house literally up the street from the kids but this one just feels better.

So I find myself trying to stay on top of school and getting ready to move. ARGH!!! What I'm struggling with most is moving away from my family and friends. I've always been blessed with a lot of amazing friends spread all over, but I will no longer be 30 min away for last-minute dinner dates with girl friends. All my family live in Bountiful with the exception of my Dad and a few siblings. I struggled with leaving my job at STAR for the same reason. I felt such close bonds/connections with some of the people there. I guess I now just have to put more of an effort into my relationships. So despite me being nervous, the calm remains. This calm I have found in my life is unshakable. It is probably the biggest blessing in my life. The calm is constant. I've worked hard to achieve it but through grace I found it.

On Tuesday night, B and I took a walk around Plain City to talk about the devotional he was to give that night to a ward in Clearfield. As we were walking, that peace overcame me, stronger than normal. I knew this was going to be good. Things were good and will continue to be good as long as I keep doing what I've been doing.

So there ya go. I am now pretty excited about our move. To get into our little cottage and get back into the groove of things. Cooking dinner, homework, etc....I'm now just dreading the moving part.

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Kitty Balls????

So a few weeks ago I was taking a nap when I heard a cat screaming. I mean really screaming. I didn't think much of it, figured a cat had been run over or something, so I went on with my nap. Then a couple weeks later, I'm going out to the garage for something before Brandon and I head off to a meeting. As I go in the garage, I hear this scurrying noise. I look down and there are these little eyes, blinking back at me. It totally freaks me out, even though I realize it's just kittens. I run in the house and tell Brandon there are a bunch of kittens in the garage. He thought I was nuts. I drag him out there and we can't hear a thing. At this point, now I think I'm crazy. But then, there's that scurrying noise again. Brandon and I find 4 baby kittens, only a few weeks old. One in particular was really fiesty....it hissed at Brandon when he got near. I decided he was my favorite since he had spunk.

We left for our meeting and when we came home, we noticed a black cat hanging out at the edge of our lawn. We assumed it was mom and so went to bed. Brandon put food out every night and that weekend, when the kids came, they rounded up the kittens. All four of them. I am not a cat person. I just don't really like them. But kittens are cute and I don't mind too bad that they brought them in because we aren't keeping them. So the kids are having fun and Laura named them all. I asked if they knew if they were boys or girls. Laura told me that there were two boys and two girls.

I thought about this for a minute. I've never noticed if a cat was male or female. It isn't obvious like it is on a dog, or at least that is what I thought. I made the huge mistake of asking "How do you guys know?". Brandon in a very proud voice replies, "Cuz they have kitty balls." Without missing a beat, Lilly holds one up and says, "See!". Well, sure enough, there they were. And then our dear sweet Elizabeth goes, "Want to see this one's kitty balls?!?!", and she holds up the other male. And the entire family busts into laughter and I have no idea what on earth just happened. Is this sexual harrassment of a kitten??? I dunno but that was definitely a funny moment in our house last weekend!!

Monday, September 5, 2011

Happy Anniversary!!!

Last Saturday was our one year anniversary. The past year has flown by. I still giggle when I think of the fact that we eloped. We had been engaged about two weeks when Brandon called me one afternoon and asked if I would hop in a car and just head to Vegas. Brandon and I have both been married before. We wanted to get married in an LDS temple but knew that the process to do so, having both been sealed to our first spouses, would take months to receive Church clearance/cancelation in order to do so. Both of our Bishops advised us to get married civilly and then pursue a temple sealing. With it being our second wedding, and since our first choice of a temple ceremony wasn't an option due to the time it would take, we had started planning a small wedding at my aunts house and were really excited. The next thing I know, we end up in Vegas!!

I will always cherish the memories and conversations we had during the hours leading up to our wedding. To some, getting married in Vegas may seem a bit selfish (some even wanted to be there and we understand that-- big apologies to Amber and Pookie) or unconventional, but ultimately it was what we wanted and we have never regretted the decision. A few weeks later, we had a celebration with friends and family - celebrating our new union and especially our new family. We had so much fun.

For our anniversary this year we spent they day in the Bountiful Temple. Early that morning, we went out to breakfast, then B took me shopping for a new dress and then we went to the Temple. Brandon and I volunteer in the temple's cafeteria every other Saturday doing dishes and it was our Saturday to be there. After we were done working, we ate dinner in the cafeteria and then did a session. We had planned to go out to a movie after, but ended up home watching a video, snacking on crab, grapes and cheese. It was honestly one of the best days ever.

Brandon, I never knew that love, a relationship, and a marriage could be like this. I am blessed beyond measure to have you as my husband. You sacrifice so much to take care of our family and I love you for it. Thank you for being my best friend. For staying up late with me, talking into the night. For holding my hand. For listening. For making me laugh on a daily basis. For being so brutally honest with me. Thank you for everything you do for me. Thank you for the texts and phone calls and emails throughout my day to tell me you love and adore me and are thinking of me. Thank you for letting me in and for allowing me to know all of you. You are such an amazing man. I love you.


Gone Fishing

I went fishing as a kid, but not really ever as an adult. Brandon got me into it last summer...So I had been asking to go fishing for weeks....and today it finally happened. B woke me up early this morning and we headed out. Last night, I asked him what time we were getting up and he informed me it was better that I not know, I just needed to get up and get in the car. And ya know what? He was right! I didn't ask what time it was, I got up, brushed my teeth and climbed in the car. I now know it was before 6 a.m. and I think the fact that I didn't know the actual time made it easier for me. I know you are thinking, "what on earth, that makes no sense". I'm not going to question it. It makes sense for me.

Brandon asked me if I had ever been in to Bowman's (our local grocery store) early in the morning when their bakery was just opening up. I stared at him and he grinned. We didn't need to go any further, we both knew I hadn't (I'm not a morning person). Walking into the store and being hit with that amazing smell was a little bit of heaven! We grabbed some doughnuts and milk and hit the road. We stopped briefly at Rockport Reservoir before heading up to "our spot" at Smith and Morehouse.

There is really only one way to describe our day of fishing. JACK POT!! We walked down to a spot we really like behind the "lake". There in a pool was over a dozen fish. Brandon easily caught four in the first 20 minutes, I was not too far behind him. He asked me if I wanted to go for a hike, I agreed and off we went down the river. We spent the rest of the day hiking down the river. Crossing back and forth several times, getting cold and wet but having a blast. We kept catching fish after fish. We both caught easily over a dozen. We brought four home for dinner. By the time we got back to the car it was after 1 p.m. We then went for a drive, got some lunch and then came home for a nap.

It was a simple day. But we decided that it was probably the coolest thing we had done all summer. I love the days we spend together and when we are spontaneous. I love how Brandon is always taking care of me. He sometimes tries to help me too much (which is a great quality), I never have to carry stuff, or open my door, and he always holds my hand, etc. I made him show me how to set up my own line so I could do it though, last year he always set mine up for me. But no more! I can now do it just fine. Brandon says he loves my independence and that I like to do things on my own, which is a good thing, because I'm not changing!

Brandon, I love you! I had so much fun with you today. I love that we sit and talk and talk. From the important to the silly. I love just talking with you and I love that you are a talker! I also love that we can sit in silence and just be together. I love that you made me laugh all day today. My sides hurt sometimes from you making me laugh. Thank you for teaching me, helping me. For being my best friend. Today was a good day. I love you B!

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Quick Update

Well, I have not been good at the blogging thing lately. Our last month of summer has been so hectic!! The kids had their two weeks of uninterrupted time with their mom starting on August 8th. They went back to school on August 23rd and it is their year to spend Labor Day with their mom. So needless to say, we have had one Thursday night dinner with them since then. It has been really hard for us. We have missed them, a lot,but that is just how it works out sometimes. We are excited to go to dinner tonight and can't wait for the next three weeks to be over and back to having them over on the weekend!!

My Dad came into town with my brother and sister. Technically they are my half siblings, but I don't think of them that way....but wanted to clarify since it sometimes confuses people. I had not seen them since last September, so was really excited to have them stay with us. Ashi's school started in the middle of it though, so I only got to spend a couple of days with her. We spent one day at the spa getting our toes done and then shopping til we dropped!! Brandon colored her hair. Yes, Brandon. We had fun going to movies, out to eat and just hanging with my Dad and brothers during the week.

I started back at Weber State on the 22nd of August. This has been a big change for me, as I have quit my full time job. I have never not worked (Except for 5 months in 2005). I was really nervous but am doing ok with all the changes. Brandon started his semester as well and is teaching full time for Weber State University. They have asked him to teach some additional courses and he is really liking his new job.

We had our one year anniversary!! Woot woot! No one knew because we eloped and didn't tell anyone for four weeks. I just giggle at this still. What an amazing memory. Our mission is going great and we love every minute of it. So this is the real quick run down of where we have been the past month!!! Will post again soon with more detail!!

Monday, August 8, 2011

Who's Birthday is it??

My summers consisted of playing on the beach, with friends, family trips and much more. But always, we made a trip back to Utah to be with family. I have endless memories as a kid but I recently got to relive an old memory. My mom and Aunt Suzi used to throw Birthday/Luau Parties. But it wasn't necessarily ever anyone's birthday. We just had a birthday party. Cake and all.

They would cut a watermelon into a basket and fill it with food. We would BBQ, do crafts, learn to Hula, and play games. Mom and Suzi would deck out Gramsy and Papa's back yard. We would all dress up and the partying would go late into the night.

This last Thursday, they threw another one. It had been YEARS since we had had one. So my mom's grandkids and Suzi's grandkids got to experience it. The kids and I went over early to help set up, cut fruit, etc. We BBQ'd hot dogs and burgers, made butterflies out of tissue paper and hung them around the yard. Suzi taught us all to Hula, to true Hawaiian music! Gramsy and Papa spent a lot of time in Hawaii when my mom was a teenager, so they have the good music! Then we had one of my mom's famous scavenger hunts and played the frozen spoon game.

It was weird for me as Kate and I walked around with the kids, thinking of when we were kids and it was us that was running all over the yard looking for treasure. I'm grateful that our kids got to experience something that we did all the time. When I think back to my mom and Suzi, I don't know how they did it. They are both such amazing mom's and women. I am blessed to have them in my life.

Brian and Andrea have three exchange students from Japan staying with them right now. Brandon was concerned that we really confused them by having a Luau/Birthday Party when it was no one's birthday. And he thinks they may never return after the frozen spoon game.... :)


Saturday, August 6, 2011

BCF's

I grew up with a lot of cousins (16 of us total). The majority of us all live within 15 minutes of each other. I have always been particularly close with my cousin Katie. We are only 3 months a part. The other week, during "Therapy Thursdays" (That is what we call our Thursday's together, while our kids swim and we chat) I looked at her and asked her, "When did we become the adults??". It really does seem like last summer that our mom's were cooking the hot dogs and Kate and I were playing. We both just laughed. I am so grateful for Kate. We've always had each other and always been able to confide in one another. I'm very fortunate to have some life long friends, she is one of them.

As kids, we loved to play in Gramsy and Papa's backyard. We would dress up as princess and pretend we were just that. We would spend hours making up dance routines, playing school, having water fights, working for papa, sleepovers outside, laying on Papa's patio during rain storms, climbing trees, going to sewing lessons, bike rides, camping, fishing, skiing every Saturday at Park City, shopping at ZCMI and Nordstroms with our mom's and Gramsy, lunch at the Tiffin Room...the list goes on. I am truly blessed. The other week, a picture was taken of us which reminded me of one from when we were little....


Then...


and now....



Best Cousin's Forever!! Love you Kate!! XOXO

Camping in Fairview

Earlier in July, we went camping with Brandon's family and some of his extended family down in Fairview, Utah. We had a lot of fun. My Uncle Mark loaned us his 15 passenger van so we could fit everything and all ride together. I giggled as Brandon and I drove. My Mom and Dad drove a big van like that and so I just felt like I was my mom. I have moments like that all the time....like when I catch myself saying, "If you're going upstairs already, then take that with you. Save a trip!" Being like my mom is not a bad thing. I have an amazing mom!

Brandon, Laura and Liz woke up early on Saturday to drive back up home so that Liz could be in a parade she had been working hard to be in and Laura had worked hard to teach the routine at her dance camp. When we realized the conflict, I assumed I would drive the girls up. But Brandon was adamant about being the one to take them. He told me, "You always get to take them and see them dance, it's my turn." How can I say no to that?? Liz has really liked taking a dance class from Katie and Laura continues to grow as a dancer.

We spent the weekend fishing, playing in dirt, roasting marshmallows and hanging out with family. Everyone caught multiple fish. Lilly and Luke caught the most by far. I only caught one. But hey, I had a blast! All the girls earned a mani and pedi by jumping in the river in our clothes, Luke earned a movie. But Brandon didn't earn anything....he made all the bets. We didn't think to make him jump in too! Smart man! Emma (Tara's youngest girl) picked me a bunch of wild flowers while we were up there, which followed with more flowers from other darling nieces!! Oh how I love these girls!! They make my heart smile!

We had a lot of fun with our family and hanging out around the fire. We really love camping and fishing and Brandon and I are hoping to go again in the next two weeks.



Friday, August 5, 2011

Park City

We took the kids to Park City for a few days. The Smith's (Andrea's parents) invited us up to their time share at the Marriot Summit Watch in Park City. I had stayed there before and so knew what kind of fun we were in for. Park City is one of my favorite quick getaways. Two of my girlfriends and I love to go up there for girl's weekends and Brandon and I did a honeymoon there. The kids had never been to Park City and they and Brandon told me they had never gone anywhere as a family unless it was camping. Needless to say the kids were very excited to go on a vacation that wasn't camping.

This Marriot is a great place to go with kids. There is a huge activities center with a pool and games and a wii and games, etc. Our first night, we headed right over to the pool. As soon as the kids were in bed, Brandon and I headed out on a date. Monday, Brandon and I got up early to go have facials and soak in the hot tubs. We then went over and road the Alpine Slide and Alpine Roller Coaster. VERY FUN!!!! Then Brandon and I took the kids out to eat at Bandit's. It's BBQ/Steaks. One of my favorite places to eat there. Laura got a steak, Lilly got a combo plate with brisket and another meat, Liz got ribs (would she get anything else??? NO), Brandon got an amazing burger, I had cedar plank salmon and Luke had grilled cheese. :)

We swam some more, cooked at the hotel. Brandon had to go home Monday night for work. After he left, Brian, Andrea, Lincoln and the kids and I went and made s'mores!! There are multiple fires around down town with benches and we just picked one and went to town! It was a lot of fun. After, Liz and I went to the activities Center to watch the Justin Beiber movie. Everyone else played a game back at the room. On Tuesday, we swam some more. Laura and Luke went on a hike with the Smith's and Brian, Andrea and Lincoln. Lilly, Liz and I did a picture scavenger hunt and then went out to eat at a French Bistro.

We had a lot of fun. We were all sad to leave. We are so grateful to the Smith's and Brian and Andrea for having us up there!! Thank you so much!!

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

And the summer goes on....

Ok...so needless to say, we have had a very hectic few weeks!!! The kids came to stay with us for two weeks and we had such a good time having them around....I worked the first week and so the kids came with me to nanny the Izatt family. I had to borrow Junior (Jenn's Expedition) in order to fit all 7 kids in a car. 7 kids. 7 very awesome kids. 7 very fun and beautiful kids. 1 exhausted Jill. Over the three days I was working we swam, we bowled and we swam some more. And that was just the start to our week!!! So here is a quick run down of the past few weeks:

*Swimming
*Dinner at Connee's
*Bowling
*Swimming at North Shore with my friends Sam and Shara and their kids (it made for 11 kids total and 3 adults.....YIKES!!)
*Dance for Liz
*Luke was in the Primary Bike Parade
*The next couple of days are a blur...
*We went to Park City for three days
*My car died
*Lilly had piano
*Liz had dance
(Inhale here.....)
*Had a big old cousin bash at our house: pizza, games, root beer floats and a movie outside
*Nails done
*Hair Cuts
*Luke and B had some man time at a movie, ice cream and a bike ride.
*Decorated Cakes
*Played on stilts
*Naps on the lawn

So I'm confident that I have missed a few things but as you can see, those two weeks were crazy, hence it being a total blur. We did a lot of swimming and the kids have become hooked on M*A*S*H. They lay on our bed and floor at night before bed to watch it with Brandon and I. We love it.

Brandon kept us laughing the whole two weeks. When he walks in the door he had this ability to make me laugh even when I'm completely stressed out trying to make dinner. He makes everything better. I don't know how to explain this goofy man I am married to, but he keeps the kids and I laughing.

Brandon started full time with Weber State University on July 1st. He is so very excited for this opportunity, as am I. He plans to look for a part time job in nursing as well but right now is putting his main focus at Weber State. Weber State has opened up a program at Ogden Weber Applied Technology College, so that is where he will be teaching up in the new building. I am excited and nervous to get back into school this fall. Taking the last year off was defanitely needed as I transitioned into being married again and having four kids but I am anxious to get my degree done as I am over half way there!!!

So we are having fun, enjoying one another. Trying to transition into new employment and school and still really enjoying our Service Mission. That continues to be such an amazing experience for Brandon and I.


Wednesday, July 6, 2011

4th of July Video

Here are a few video clips from the fourth of July... This is the candy drop. He flys incredibly low, a tad bit freaky and makes several passes and drops a tun of candy. The good stuff!



Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Family, Good Friends, and the 4th

The past week has been hectic but great. Liz had dance camp. Laura helped teach dance while Lilly watched my cousin's girls. Family is in town and we have had fun seeing Michelle with Saddie and Nixon. We had a BBQ at Suzi and Wally's (Nana and Papa Wally) house and made s'mores and the kids put on a play on the stage. Does it get any better? Brandon and I worked in the Temple on Saturday, washing dishes. We were told again by the temple president that we were going to heaven. For doing dishes? Had I known this I would have started working in the Temple washing dishes sooner!! I made some steak and shrimp kabob's that pretty much rocked for dinner Saturday night.

For the Fourth of July we spent the day with our good friends Cody and Kari Wright and their family. Brandon has known Cody since high school and their kids are the same ages as ours. They have been friends for a long time and they have been so welcoming to me. It's nice to have such good friends. We have a lot of fun together. We started our morning off with a parade and then off to a carnival with a killer water slide, and some professional wrestling, rock climbing wall and all sorts of games. There was also a candy drop, yep, it was awesome. Brandon was overjoyed at the wrestling. I don't even know how to describe this the wrestling entertainment but let's say I don't think we were supposed to find it comical, I think it was supposed to be serious. Either way, we loved it. We spent the rest of the day BBQing and hanging out. The kids played in the sprinklers, played hop scotch, spray painted t-shirts and played games. I was introduced to what Brandon and Kari called one of the funniest movies of all time, Nacho Libre. Kari made home made mac and cheese, YUM. We ended our night with fireworks. The fireworks in Willard are amazing. We laid on the baseball field and they were right above us. FANTASTIC! As I laid on the lawn, I felt complete. Laura was laying on one leg, my Brandon on the other, and Luke leaned on my tummy to watch the fireworks, with Liz and Lilly close by. It was one of those moments where you know everything is worth it; family is what it is all about. Brandon and I are blessed. It was a great moment to end a fun day.

We continue to have a good summer and enjoy being with each other, our family, and friends. Lilly is currentyly at girls camp and will get home just in time to go camping again with the Sandall family. Then the kids are with us for two weeks straight; we couldn't be more thrilled. Life is good. We wish our summer would slow down!

Laura's Dance Photo's

Laura had her dance pictures taken. Here they are...I don't have a scanner hooked up currently so I went ghetto and took pictures of the pictures with my camera. HA!!

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

How Many "Summer" Posts Can I Have????

So I'm wondering just how many "summer" posts I can have?? I may need help on title ideas to get me through the summer...June has flown by. We have had a very calm and relaxing June. Lot's of time at the pool, and outside. Liz is taking a dance class from my cousin Katie and Lilly is taking piano lessons from her aunt Andrea (my sister-in-law). Both are on Thursday's and so we've formed a tradition of what I like to call "Therapy Thursday's". After dance and piano, we pile in the car and go swimming. Katie and her three girls come with us and so the seven kids play and Kate and I get to catch up and play with our kids. We have a picnic at my mom's before swimming. I've found my Thursday's at the pool to be very therapeutic.

Brandon has been looking for a job change where he can use his masters degree, he recently accepted a new position as the Director of Nursing for a home hospice company. He is really excited for this new opportunity. He will continue to teach for Weber State University as well. Good job babe!

So here are the random, fun things we've had going on:
*Liz is in dance
*Lilly is taking piano
*I threw up in the Bountiful Temple (see my other blog for the full story)
*Brandon got a burnt belly button (he says I have to put that it's my fault...not the case...)
*We got a free junky BBQ (it was found on the side of the road) that doubles as a fire pit to make s'mores
*Liz started a new hobby of painting rolly polly's
*My sun roof burst. Not cracked. Burst. Brandon was driving on the freeway when it happened. He is ok. I got a nice man to put collision wrap on it for me for now. It makes a really odd noise at high speeds. Anyone with an extra sunroof laying around?? A new one is more than the car is worth.
*I got a new purse
*I learned how to make gourmet chicken strips.
*Luke is a track star in the making
*Brandon and I found the coolest rocking chairs for $5 each at the D.I. (blog post simply about this to come...)
*Brandon and I have taken up camp outs in our back yard
*Brandon has started playing the trumpet
*We are loving our mission!
*Brandon and I got told we are "normal" (documentation pending....)
*I got my eyelashes dyed
*Laura has had multiple injuries (puncture wounds) to the same foot
*I got a new rad curling iron
*My car got backed into the last week of school. I have a rental. It's a Yaris.
*Brandon doesn't fit in the Yaris
*Brandon's car got cleaned out (pause for moment of shock)
*I have my first veggie garden and it hasn't died yet!
*Luke is Mr. Popularity (post to follow)
*We had fun swimming with cousins, aunts, uncles last Saturday. Uncle Nick introduced the kids to the movie "Mean Girls"
*Lilly and I went shopping. Always a high light!

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Summer Begins...

Our summer has begun...After dance and piano last Thursday, we went swimming at my mom's with Katie and her girls. The kids will swim rain or shine. Kate and I managed to get some sun! Wahoo!! Brandon and Laura had a Daddy, Daughter Date at their ward in North Ogden. While they were there and Lilly was with friends, the twins and I went out to dinner and to the store. We ate at Panda Express and then to Target. While at the store we got some fun things- a slip and slide and some sidewalk paint!

So while the kids were playing, I went camping for a couple of days. As part of our service mission, Brandon and I do a 12-Step Meeting at the Women's Recovery Center in Layton. The girls in our group invited me to a Recovery Retreat last weekend, and I was so excited to go! So Brandon took the kids swimming three days in a row and I went camping with some very special girls. We've had a fun start to our summer!!

A Wedding, Holiday and The Start of Summer....

I haven't been good at updating this lately . . . my apologies. Since the last post we've had a wedding, Memorial Day, and our summer has started. Cami, Brandon's youngest sister, got married over Memorial Day weekend. The wedding was in Brauch and Natalie's backyard. Brandon was in charge of pictures for the most part...not sure if he gets the camera ever again! We were so excited for Cami and her new little family. Brady has three kids and so they are now a family of six! We couldn't be happier for them! Congrats you guys, we love you!!

The kids were with us for the holiday and so we braved the "giant babysitter" (as Brandon likes to call it). It's the Bountiful Rec Center. It was packed. We swam there for a bit but then decided to ditch the crowds and went over to my mom's pool. The kids are out for summer and so am I. They had a weeks head start as their school finished in the end of May. Mine got out on June 3rd. I had planned to not work this summer but decided to after all. I always think I'm not going to work and just do nothing but I seem to have a hard time not working... I am only working part time but that is even hard for me. I'm nannying for my boss again, and I love it. Her kids are a lot of fun and this is my third summer with them. They keep me on my toes and we have a lot of fun playing together...

Liz is taking a dance class this summer at my cousin Katie's dance studio. She is very excited about being in two parades and doing a two week dance camp. Lilly is taking piano from my sister-in-law, Andrea. Laura auditioned for a competition dance team again and made the same team, Connection, for next year. Go Laura!! We are all excited for summer! Brandon and I started our service mission on June 1st and we are really enjoying this opportunity. We feel so blessed.


Monday, May 30, 2011

Addiction Recovery Program

The good people we work with. This is what Brandon and I are doing. We love it. The people there are truly amazing people. We are blessed to know them.

Friday, May 20, 2011

Called To Serve

"I wish to be up and doing. I wish to face each day with resolution and purpose. I wish to use every waking hour to give encouragement, to bless those whose burdens are heavy, to build faith and strength of testimony.”

—Gordon B. Hinckley, “Testimony,” Ensign, May 1998, 69







Over the past few months we have had several missionaries speak in sacrament meeting (for my non-member friends, that is the hour of church in which the whole congregation meets together to partake of the sacrament and hear talks on specific subjects). As I go through journal entries written during this time i realize I have several entries about wanting to serve. During one of these "Missionary Sacrament Meetings", I leaned over to Brandon and whispered, "We need to do this". Next thing I know (as in, the very next day...), Brandon has missionary applications in hand. He found a service mission for us! The mission will be for The Church of Jesus Christ of Ladder Day Saints, Addiction Recovery Program.


A couple of months ago we were able to sit in on a 12-step meeting then later meet with a missionary couple who coordinate the program in our area. Shortly thereafter we were asked by this same couple to get involved with a 12-step program taking place in our area on Sunday evenings.


So as a result of all of this, we are currently facilitating a local 12-step program (Sunday evenings). Our actual mission will be served at a Women's Recovery Center, also in our area.


I am still not sure I am the type to wear a missionary name tag, but maybe that is the very thing I bring to the table. Ha! Our papers are in and we've been attending missionary training meetings as well as meetings to help us facilitate on Sunday nights.

Here is some information about what a church service mission is:

http://lds.org/service/missionary-service/church-service-missionaries?lang=eng

Since 1979, the Church-Service Missionary Program has provided a growing and varied number of opportunities to serve. This important missionary workforce helps many Church departments and operations provide needed products and services. Serving others brings great blessings to those who serve and to the Church worldwide.

You can contact the Church-Service Missionary Program office at Church headquarters at 1-800-453-3860, ext. 2-4914 (or 801-240-4914), or e-mail csm-support@ldschurch.org.

What are church service missionaries?
The purpose of the Church-Service Missionary Program is to provide opportunities for members to give their time to the Lord through work-related service missions. Church-service missionaries serve at least 8 hours per week. They normally serve for 6 to 24months.

What are the qualifications to serve?All Church-service missionaries must be worthy to hold a temple recommend and should have no minor children living at home. They must be physically, mentally, and emotionally able to fulfill the specific call and its related duties. Prospective missionaries must also provide their own transportation and financial support. Church-service missionaries are responsible for their own medical and dental needs, including eye-care and prescription-drug expenses.

Brandon and I are so excited to serve. I think we both feel like we have no clue what we are doing and are scared to death, but the peace in this opportunity is amazing. I think we both just feel lucky and blessed and humbled. Our mission starts on June 1st and our badges arrived today when I came home from work! We are just waiting for our official call to come, which should be any day now. What an exciting time in our lives!

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Where's my raft?!?

A few weeks ago, we came home to our street being blocked off. A water line burst under the road and was coming up through the asphault. Cars would sink slightly as they drove over the affected area. All that night, the city had to repair it. Next time, I plan to have a blow up raft so I can play.




Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Tulips!

This last Saturday Brandon and I attended a conference in Downtown Salt Lake City. After, we ventured over to a funky Chinese/Mongolian BBQ place. We noticed something going on across the street at the Library. It was Live Green, Greener Living in Downtown. We wandered around and enjoyed the eclectic group of people. Ok, we enjoyed the hippie's and weirdo's. There was a great band playing, three older guys in tacky suits, rocking it out on the drums, guitar and chelo. Anyone there know the name of the band???

After, B took me to the Tulip Festival at Thanksgiving Point. I have wanted to go to this for YEARS! B took me last year for my first time. So now we have a tradition. there are over 250,000 bulbs planted each year. Last year, we rented a golf cart. That resulted in Brandon chasing your typical chubby kid, in khaki's and a polo. Not to mention Brandon driving all over trying to get in the background of Bridal Photo's being taken and then taking the wheel while I'm driving and taking the cart up onto the lawn, past the "No Golf Carts" sign! So while I missed the golf cart, I wasn't having to worry about Brandon getting us kicked out!! Ok, I really thought all of it was hilarious. And Brandon tried to get me to go to a wedding going on but I chickened out.

This year, we walked it. 10 minutes in, we were barefoot and enjoying the cool grass on our feet. Hand in hand, we walked all over enjoying the flowers. We grabbed a coke and laid on the huge lawn at the amphitheatre and relaxed. Something I really enjoy about our relationship is our ability to talk. We spent the majority of that day talking and I can feel our relationship grow as we do. There were a tun of coy in the pond this year. We stood down there for a long time, just enjoying watching the fish. Once we were home, we had crab and enjoyed hanging in our pj's and watching movies. Seriously, such a fabulous day!!!



Here's a video of the fish...



Thursday, May 5, 2011

Who's Your Daddy???

I have a lot of great men in my life. One is a pretty amazing dad. He is my husband. This dad is very unique. He loves the outdoors and loves to fish. He is a teacher, not just by profession but in life. He is a healer. He allows you to have your space to grow and figure things out on your own. He is supportive of all you do. He is honest, sometimes I think he is too honest! He is a fantastic rapper. He knows people in high places (like Obama). He is an amazing trumpet player. He has a testimony and is not afraid to share it. He see's the value in having an education. He has sacrificed and missed out on things so that other people wouldn't and so his family was provided for. He never ever needs the spot light and never puts himself first. I tell him he needs to do that a little more. He is the funniest man I know. Those closest to him really get how how funny he is. He encourages independence and does not control. He wants his kids and his wife to be independent and do things on their own. He is great at tickling backs and makes some tasty steak and shrimp! He can do the Oompa Loompa dance like know one else! He pays attention to the little things and is always wanting to serve others. He is a pretty awesome man. He loves his children. He makes mistakes but he owns up to his mistakes and does what he can to correct them. He is a great dancer, he really has some moves. He is a pretty awesome dad.

Monday, May 2, 2011

Eggs

Just a few pictures from dying eggs and from the actual day...Enjoy! :)_

Hoppy Easter!!

Easter has come and gone. Where does the time go? This year, the kids spent Easter with their mom. B and I spent the day having brunch with my family and then dinner over at his brothers house. I got Brandon an Easter Basket. Sort of. You may be wondering how one "sort of" gets an Easter Basket??? Well, I got all the goods for in the basket but never got the basket or the grass. So it was like an Easter Surprise! Oh-well....there is always next year, right? Brandon got me a new Easter Dress. He didn't know he got it for me til I was putting it on. He has great taste in dresses!

I find these holiday's odd. In my mind it's like two holidays in one. There is the spiritual/religious holiday and then the fun candy holiday. To be honest, I have never understood not celebrating Easter. The commercialized part. The Easter Bunny and baskets and candy have nothing to do with the Christian religion and while I don't know how it all got started, it's pretty fun. I wonder why people thinking hunting for eggs is recognizing a Christian religion?? My thoughts are the same about Christmas. I say, Party on!

However, when looking at the religious part of it, for me, I am very grateful to be able to remember and recognize what Easter is for me personally. I find a lot of joy in the fun parts and a lot of peace in the spiritual. I am grateful to my Savior for all he has done for me. The fact that I get chocolate on that same day is just a bonus!

We dyed Easeter Eggs with the kids the week before and then we did our family Easter Egg hunt the next weekend. My cousin's girls are on the same schedule as our kids for seeing the other parent and so it works out really well for all the kids to be together. We also celebrated Gramsy's birthday at the Easter party. However, I would have been ok with two parties...that just means more cake.



"Pretend like you know each other!!"Me with Laura, Izabelle and Liz
I'm not really sure what to call this....I worry about these two....
Who knew a hat like that could look good???
I wonder what he was doing right before I took this....


I think my hat is more fashionable...
Hailey...
Aunt Suzi. Need I say more????

All decked out for the party


I love this face

Mac Attack



Bunny Hop anyone?? Where's Wally???

Monday, April 18, 2011

One Year Older

On Friday, April 8th, Laura turned 11!! We had a lot of fun celebrating her birthday. She had her convention that day, but we did get to go visit her mom before and then we had a late dinner and birthday cake when she and I got home that night. She wore a blinking pin at the convention to let everyone know it was her birthday. It was awesome. On Sunday the grandparents came over for chili dogs and presents.
The next Friday we went to the Cheesecake Factory with two of Laura’s friends…
Laura, we all love you! You are a great sister, a loyal friend and an awesome daughter. We love you so much! You bring something so special to our family. Thank you for all you do. You are a beautiful strong girl who knows who she is and what she believes. Hold to that! You are going to go far in life!

Friday, April 15, 2011

Spring Break Break Down

I had 10 whole days off for Spring Break this year!! Woot Woot! The kids came down for the last half, during their Spring break. So here is a quick break down of our adventures:

(Big inhale here)


* Lilly brought a friend down for a sleep over on Wednesday night, they stayed up late watching movies. We won't discuss how late or how scary of movies.

*Wednesday night also involved meeting my cousin Katie and her 3 girls at Classic Skating for unlimited skating, laser tag, pirates cove and bounce toys. Pizza and sprite! So Kate and I USED to rock at skating. I had a little skating skirt and my own skates…the whole she-bang! We are not so awesome anymore. But we had fun. Luke had never been and he was awesome! He and Liz shared this little device to help keep them up and he ditched it towards the end of the night! GO Luke!

*Liz made all of us French toast! Thanks Liz-a-bean!! Thursday, Laura went to a birthday party. The twins, Lilly and her friend and I went swimming! This was a total blast! Liz decided she likes going down the slide with me, cuz I make her go faster. Fantastic.

*Thursday night, Lilly, Laura and I did a little shopping. Got Lilly an Easter dress and a few things for Laura’s birthday.

*Friday WAS LAURA’S BIRTHDAY!! Laura and I went to her dance convention, we stopped by her mom’s work to say hi before we went. Lilly and the twins got to spend some time with their cousins. Brandon cooked Laura and I dinner and made her a birthday cake.

*Saturday, Laura and I went back to her convention and B and the kids played at home.

*Sunday, we got a new fridge, went to church, had Laura’s birthday dinner (chili dogs) and went to Gramsy’s for dessert. Whew!

*Monday, the kids and I packed a lunch and went to see my mom and have lunch with her in her classroom and then it was off to see Amber and then to introduce them to my friends at work. We went home and worked on homework and goofed around before I had to take the kids home. I think we were all exhausted. It was so much fun!!


(Exhale here)


Lilly's new dress Liz making us breakfast!


Lilly and Emma At the Roller rink; Emma, Laura and Lilly BFF Cousins! Beautiful mom, Katie and her three girls! Playing with cousins... Cousins Doesn't Lincoln look "uneasy"???? Baby Saddie Laura and her cousin Lincoln